Alba Alamillo, hypnotherapist
How do we recognize a police officer? louis vuitton outlet
By his uniform
And a firefighter… by his uniform
And a nurse? By her uniform
I need you to know that weather you realize it or not everyone is wearing a uniform.
replica watchesYes, yes you may say, that is pretty obvious, but what about me? Well my dear, You too are wearing an uniform, it´s a little more subtle but just as effective. The uniform we wear tells others not only which clothes we´ve chosen for that day but also who we are and how we feel about ourselves.
People feel emotions when they see us, positive, negative, fear or respect. It takes people approximately 5 seconds to realize what we have here in our head and how we feel about ourselves.
What emotions do we get when we see a guy torn clothes, dirty face and reeking of alcohol sitting on the street?
What emotions do we get when you see a nicely dressed man or woman walking with confidence near you?
What emotion do you get when you see a guy with his hands in his pockets, hunching down and looking dumb?
I am not talking about clothing here, I´m talking about everything, how we walk, talk, stand up, the facial expression, our voice pitch etc.
What uniform are you wearing?
There is this movie that I like a lot, it is about uniforms as well, when you get a chance, rent it and watch it, it´s name is: The mirror has 2 faces. In this movie there are 2 sisters Rose the ugly one and Claire the pretty one. Rose, whose character is played by Barbra Streisand, is unable to date any guy. She has a crush on Pierce Brosnan but he´s obviously interested in Claire.
Finally she marries a man who doesn´t treat her the way she wanted to be treated, but since she knows she´s ugly she doesn´t expect much from her relationship with this man.
One day she´s having a conversation with her mom, she tells her mom how terrible life is for an ugly woman,how different and much nicer her life would be if she were as pretty as her sister Claire.
“Even when we were little mom”, and in the meantime she grabs a picture frame with a girl in it, look at how pretty my sister was as a girl, look at her rosy cheeks and her pretty lips, look at those beautiful eyes.cartier replica watches
And look at that ugly girl right there mom, I don´t even know why you have that picture of me sitting on the end table.
Suddenly her mom starts laughing, “You are so silly! The pretty girl with the rosy cheeks and pretty lips is yourself”. You were indeed such a pretty child. You looked just like your dad (and Rose adored her dad)
Then something happens in Barbra´s mind, she starts feeling pretty and worthy, she realizes she has to be treated differently and as a result, everything around her changes. She suddenly became very attractive and all that Christian Louboutin sale changed inside her was her point of view.
She took off the ugly woman uniform and she put on the beautiful woman uniform. Then I want to ask you again: What uniform are you wearing?
Is the uniform that you are wearing the uniform you want to wear?